In addition, apparently, I'm the favored child! Since my BFF & my middle sis planned, paid for, and threw me a graduation and bachelorette party at my parents' home. They said mom did it! Talk about two women who are mad! Mom even said she had nothing to do with either. My middle sis planned my graduation party and my BFF planned my bachelorette party. The only thing mom did, besides clean up the house and do a little of this and that, was let us use the house. Shit, baby sis was even at my bachelorette party and heard that Lauren did it all! In the list of grievances, they said one of the reasons they did not come to the family gathering/birthday party for me, was they did not want to attend another event where I was praised and my baby sister was excluded.... BITE ME!!! I do not have it in me to politely put that. I can't think of a way to express my anger over that without using cuss words and throwing a fist. I'm fuming. My baby sis was ALWAYS the favored one. Sure we never got parties growing up, but my parents did everything for her, they even admit it, especially after Alexia was born. I FINALLY graduate college, so I want to have the family together to celebrate. I FINALLY get married, so I want a bachelorette party for my friends to celebrate that. WTF is wrong with that???? I can't help it the damn bitch never went to college. I can't help it, she doesn't have the balls to put together her own family get togethers to celebrate her. Shit, the "birthday" party was more family gathering than party. We, as a family, wanted to get together and just hang out. That's part of what is wrong with American culture. Families don't get together enough and just be together. I cannot believe they want to use my good fortune as an excuse to be assholes to everyone that's ever done good by them!!!
I'm fuming... I'm raving mad... I want to take a baseball bat upside BIL's head and knock some sense into his fucking brain. I'm sorry that this is not more diplomatic, as I try to be when I talk about such things, but I'm so mad I could spit fire!
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