Saturday, January 23, 2010

Not Happy (warning, there is cursing)

If you read my blog on my baby sister, you knew part of the situation.  Well dad talked with them (baby sis & BIL) the other night and BIL brought out a 7 page "list" of grievances about my mother.  I will not repeat most of it, as it is all pure lies and misrepresentations of the truth.  However, my name is brought up many times in the 7 page discourse.  If I ever see that BIL, I'm punching him in his face.  How can someone so intelligent, be so dumb? (Wait, hasn't my dad said that about me?)  Anywho, basically it boils down to, my baby sis is a lying sack of dog dung and her husband is blind as a bat to believe every word she says.  You put the two together and my mom is accused of everything from being suicidal (constantly) to an abuser, both physically and sexually!!!  Yeah, not happy.  Well dad read their grievances and told them straight up that it was false.  If only I could have been a fly on that wall!!!!  I knew for years that my sister misrepresented reality in her own mind, but I did not realize how truly delusional she truly is until I read the paper BIL typed up.  I mean it's worse than ever!  He even included a list of signs of an abusive personality and said they all were mom (actually, they are all my baby sis)... If it wasn't for Alexia, I'd march over to their home & beat the living shit out of BIL.  

In addition, apparently, I'm the favored child!  Since my BFF & my middle sis planned, paid for, and threw me a graduation and bachelorette party at my parents' home.  They said mom did it!  Talk about two women who are mad!  Mom even said she had nothing to do with either.  My middle sis planned my graduation party and my BFF planned my bachelorette party.  The only thing mom did, besides clean up the house and do a little of this and that, was let us use the house.  Shit, baby sis was even at my bachelorette party and heard that Lauren did it all!  In the list of grievances, they said one of the reasons they did not come to the family gathering/birthday party for me, was they did not want to attend another event where I was praised and my baby sister was excluded.... BITE ME!!!  I do not have it in me to politely put that.  I can't think of a way to express my anger over that without using cuss words and throwing a fist.  I'm fuming.  My baby sis was ALWAYS the favored one.  Sure we never got parties growing up, but my parents did everything for her, they even admit it, especially after Alexia was born.  I FINALLY graduate college, so I want to have the family together to celebrate.  I FINALLY get married, so I want a bachelorette party for my friends to celebrate that.  WTF is wrong with that????  I can't help it the damn bitch never went to college.  I can't help it, she doesn't have the balls to put together her own family get togethers to celebrate her.  Shit, the "birthday" party was more family gathering than party.  We, as a family, wanted to get together and just hang out.  That's part of what is wrong with American culture.  Families don't get together enough and just be together.  I cannot believe they want to use my good fortune as an excuse to be assholes to everyone that's ever done good by them!!!

I'm fuming... I'm raving mad... I want to take a baseball bat upside BIL's head and knock some sense into his fucking brain.  I'm sorry that this is not more diplomatic, as I try to be when I talk about such things, but I'm so mad I could spit fire!

Thanks for listening guys, all these years, whether on here or on MySpace, LiveJournal, and DiaryLand.

5 comments:

Misty said...

I am fuming just as much as you are as my two children were brought up in the "list" that was presented to Dad. Saying that said niece is forced to help with my kids when in reality she begs to hold and feed my son. Most of the things on this rediculous "list" are merely an opinion on how situations were handled improperly. An opinion of two people with such cloudy judgements on how to handle situations themselves. I will tell you right now I will NEVER do another thing to help a single person in their so called "family". How dare they act like this after all that our parents have helped them. Especially BIL who has been in the family for barely a year. Pure disrepectful actions that make me sick to my stomach. I dare one of them to say anything to MY face or my husband. Maybe they should tale a look in the mirror and face some harsh realities about what kind of "family" unit they really are. Uggh!!

Anonymous said...

completely from a bi-stander point of view, i agree, as i did last night. i have seen how babied and pampered and SPOILED she is, and i have first hand been witness to her delusions. i'm sorry that she is putting you guys through this and my heart ESPECIALLY goes out to Betty. granted, no parent is or ever will be perfect, but, Betty and Terry do a LOT for your sister, and she is blind not to see it. someone needs to remove her head from her ass. if she was to sneeze, she'd disappear. i simply cant believe how ignorant and selfish she is acting. give Betty my love, let her know everyone that knows your family is on her side on this one. LoL.

PitChiK said...

Misty: I think you probably have even more right than me to be furious. Sure I was brought up, but I didn't want to bring up much of that "list" in here due to the public nature of it. However, I doubt seriously that either one of them have the common sense to look up my blog outside of MySpace (though I'm tempted and probably will post it, and all comments on MySpace in a few days). Sadly, they aren't very literate when it comes to the interwebz...

Anon: Dude, you speak the truth and you made me laugh... Thanks for stickin up for my mom, I'll tell her about it. She'll appreciate it.

Jenny Georgio-who said...

Are you fucking kidding me? I've been trying to read this blog for the better part of the day. Finally got around to it. Baby Sis and BIL are behaving rather cuntish. Totally annoying. I told you a while back that I'm sure that the BIL had a big part of what was going on with your family. Thats just insane! 7 pages of issues they had? Maybe the majority of those issues are actually within themselves!

PitChiK said...

Jenny: BIL has his head so far up my sister's ass he can't see the forest for the trees. He takes her word as pure truth and doesn't think twice about some of the things that come out of her mouth, then takes those things she says and twists them further. Their insistence that everything they do is for Alexia's best interest is immediately seen as false as they had elaborate Halloween costumes while Alexia wore scrubs. That is only a small example of that, as baby sis has done numerous things over the years to show that her main focus is not her child, but herself. I will not say it is all BIL as the things that baby sis has said to me over the years, even before BIL came into the picture prove that she has filled his head full of bull and he has simply twisted her twisted memories further (Is Dad aware of that?) Sorry... reference to the "list"