tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24612251762509116382024-02-19T06:40:53.684-06:00Crazy is as Crazy DoesMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.comBlogger118125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-55879463345003570862013-08-07T18:25:00.000-05:002013-08-07T18:25:20.462-05:00European DreamsWhen discussing my lodging while traveling, my husband made a slightly snide comment about camping. My response was "who hasn't dreamed of camping across Europe?" He apparently never had. Now, I'm honestly curious how this couldn't be on someone's bucket list. What better way to really get to know a land, a continent, than to pitch a tent and see parts you would NEVER see if you stayed in a hotel? I can not think of anything better. I dreamed of camping and hiking in Europe as a little girl. The old woods, the beaches, the ancient ruins hidden where no one thought to look and you accidentally stumbled upon them, the air of history surrounding you in nature.... *sigh* I get goosebumps thinking about.<br />
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However, I am aware that camping is not for everyone, even some "outdoors" types like my husband. We're all shaded by our pasts. Sure he can survive in the Alaska Tundra, but maybe that's why he doesn't want to go around Europe only camping and not staying in a hotel? I don't know, we didn't delve into it much because I want to camp when I travel. I really wish we had gotten our passports sooner because I could have gone camping in Norway or Sweden. Sadly, by time I take care of my next two trips, it will be a bit too late to camp comfortably in the North like that. <br />
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My current plan is to be in Romania for the Fall Equinox and Rome for Samhain (Halloween). I do not have the plans all laid out for Romania, as I'm waiting on the results of his next appointment for his hand, but I can quickly plot out train routes and campsites once we know when his next appointment is. I am really thinking that I should get a Eurorail pass. I'm going to read over the site again, but if I read it right the first time, I'll get to use local public transit with the option I was going with. <br />
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With Romania, if you are going for the Vlad Tepes experience, you have to take a week. Most of the sites are at least 100 kilometers apart and many require lots of walking. Bran Castle requires you to walk up something like 1500 stairs to reach the ruins of that castle. Needless to say, I've been purposely making multiple trips up and down the 6 flights of stairs that lead to our apartment. We're on the third floor, but these stairs are stupid. I'm at a point to where going up and down them 3 times is no big deal, unless each trip up requires heavy lifting. <br />
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I still can't believe I'm so close to things I've always dreamed of seeing or have now seen. I saw the remnant of the Berlin Wall. I've seen the canals of Amsterdam. I saw the armor and clothing of Peter the Great of Russia (it was an exhibit in Amsterdam ok). I live in a city that was bombed heavily by the Allied Forces during WWII. I've walked along the walls of the old city in Nuremberg, quite drunk, and watched the locals shoot off fireworks on New Years. Who can boast these things? And I still have time to see more! I'm so overwhelmed with the joy of it all that I sometimes become unable to function outside of my normal routine. I think this is why so many people who get stationed overseas don't take advantage of the opportunity. They know the history is there, they know the beauty is there, but it overwhelms them. Also there are those who have no desire to see, and to them I say "WTF IS YOUR MALFUNCTION!!!!!" <br />
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Just so it's out there, here is a list of places I still need to go, not mentioned above:<br />
Pompeii<br />
A bunch of places in the UK (gotta see my ferrety friends and all that Celtic and Norse shit!)<br />
The cave art in France<br />
The Louvre<br />
Budapest<br />
Warsaw, specifically, anything to do with Chopin<br />
Something in the Alps<br />
Heidelberg<br />
Munich<br />
Can I see Moscow?<br />
Prague<br />
Places in the Byzantine Empire<br />
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I could go on, and on, and on, and on.... Everything is so close... so close you can almost taste the history of each place. As it is, the history of one area bleeds into another. My particular part of Germany at one point had both Norse AND Celts, then the Romans. Oh the history! MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-92135976128664001682013-08-01T01:45:00.000-05:002013-08-01T01:45:56.969-05:00It's Been a Hot MinuteOnce again I've neglected this blog, and I do apologize. Life in Germany has been something... special. If my poetry I posted earlier this year is any indication, there have been some troubles. I won't publicly discuss the happening in April, but I'm ok with what happened, and boundaries have been set. (If you know, you know) <br />
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Since being in Germany, I've visited a few places, but not nearly enough. I finally left Germany earlier in July. I spent a week in Amsterdam, camping on the east side of town at a place called <a href="http://www.campingzeeburg.nl/">Camp Zeeburg</a>. I absolutely LOVED it! I pitched my tent right by the water and was greeted in the morning by the birds, and one morning a spider. I explored Amsterdam by foot and public transit, and rode a Dutch style bike (cruiser bike) through a park in Zeeburg. The entire experience was both spiritually uplifting and physically invigorating. <br />
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What I haven't expressed in this blog, as it's been crazy around these parts, is my shift back to paganism. Don't preach at me, cuz I will and have out debated both sides of the argument for years. Anywho! When I say that Amsterdam was a spiritual trip I am not lying. Since being in Germany I have found that the old gods are here like you would never believe and I know where our fairy tales come from and why they were written the way they were. The sight of ravens gathered on snow is one of the most amazing sights you will ever see, if you're not afraid of birds. Snow weighing down boughs of trees as the sun dances off them is moving. The entire world is different in those moments. I'm also in a part of Germany that, way way long ago, was the intersection of the Norse and Celts. I can tell you that makes for some interesting experiences. Needless to say, you can't just assume something you are dealing with is one of the things you dealt with back in the States. You have to research. <br />
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I also have had the privilege of meeting some wonderful people who've helped me grow spiritually, both my gifts and my heart, here and I'm so thankful. Before leaving Colorado, I had the wonderful opportunity to be gifted a few tarot decks and they have helped tremendously in figuring out what I'm dealing with. I've learned that "evil" is relative and is about perception. You really have to flex your sensing "muscles" before banishing anything, but always have your guards up. I've learned the art of wards in a way I never thought possible in Texas. I've discussed before, maybe not here, the craziness that is Texas on a spiritual level, and this is totally different. Maybe one day I'll tell the story of how I met Loki or how I met Morrigan back in Texas all those years ago, but I won't go into that now or into the fey, alfar, and elementals that are around here. <br />
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I have plans this weekend to visit Rothenburg and in September I'm planning on going to Romania. I've decided that camping through Europe is the best way for me to go. Not only is it WAY cheaper than hotels and hostels, but you get to commune with nature, the old trees and waterways that make up the stories we were told as small children, in a way you would never experience staying in a brick and motor building. When I go to Rome, I've already found a beach front camping site I will use. Thanks to my experience in Amsterdam, I'm no longer apprehensive of staying near water. I've learned a way to keep water spirits, which in my experience are the most likely to be nasty and/or evil things. I can't wait to be on that beach near a city I only fantasized about in Latin class 16 years ago. To be near a place that is ancient, but no where near as ancient as places just south on the other side of the Mediterranean. <br />
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I could go on in length about the beauty that surrounds me, and I will probably go on ad nauseum in future post about just that. I'm in awe. My camera can not capture the essence of what I see, even if I had a fancy DSLR. <br />
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One last note before I close this post: I have finally found myself in a position as a leader of a spiritual group. When I was young, I always knew I had the potential for something like that; however, as I got older, I became lackadaisical, but also apprehensive about being a leader other than in the work place. I'm afraid I'll give bad information or scare people off with some of my more controversial ideas, i.e. evil being relative and all the fey/alfar stuff, oh and chaos magic and practices. However, I'm finding that, despite my social issues, people respect me and listen. This is truly humbling and makes me take pause at exactly what I say and not just pop off with whatever comes to mind. I also make sure to point out that what I'm saying is unverified personal gnosis (UPG in future posts) so that those I'm talking to know that, though it is my personal experience, there is no historical evidence, at the moment, to verify my beliefs. I think much of what we call dogma, though one can show passages here and there to prove one's point, is UPG since many ancient, holy texts have repeatedly been mistranslated or the parts people use are taken wholly out of context. I'm so blessed to live this experience. And the best part is, B almost literally pushes me out of the house, forcing me to face my fears and social anxieties to overcome them and experience my dream like I would never do before. I'm finding that I can actually be alone and be happy. I give that all to him, and a really good friend I met here. MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-2331964831452606272013-03-23T20:23:00.000-05:002013-03-23T20:23:35.837-05:00The Little Debates<br />
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As many know, I love a good academic debate. However, I despise when said debate goes into
crazy theories that their only basis is someone that negates evidence because
it does not prove what they are looking for.
Case in point, purposely dismissing archaeological evidence and prizing
others because it does not support your belief that aliens or some superior
race helped build ancient relics and architecture. Yes, there are holes riddling the theories of
much of archaeological dogma, but that does not mean that your hypothesis that there
was a superior race that there is ZERO archaeological evidence of, other than
images in art that do not fit into our views of normal, supporting that there
was such. It is known that there were humanoids
that had larger brains or brain cavities than homo sapiens; however brain size
and brain cavity size is not always equate to more brain power. The size is first relative to the proportion of
the size of the species and second to the structure of the brain. Homo sapiens brains are a bit more compact
than other humanoids, but they structure of the brain allows for more
information to be stored. The folds of
the brain allow this. You could think of
it as the difference between the total surface area of a flat sheet versus a
balled up one. The folds cause the sheet
to become more compact. Since brains,
like other organs, are soft tissue, they are easily lost to time, and rarely
preserved. I do not have the information
to know whether or not the interior of the brain cavity can show us how much or
little the brain was folded; however memory is suggesting there may be a way to
tell, dependent entirely on how the remains decomposed. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I enjoyed my conversation until wild speculations of a superior
humanoid race was brought up with very little evidence presented. If your evidence is solely based on History
Channel and other “educational” channels, you are gravely mistaken. The shows and theories presented tend towards
bias for ratings. My opinions on
archeology and anthropology are based on actual work by actual anthropologists,
a couple I had the privilege of being taught by. To dismiss something I say, based only on
what you saw on Discovery Channel, is not only an insult to me, but to your own
intelligence. I will never claim to know
all there is to know about the subject, but I have to scoff someone, usually in
my mind, when they use such programming as the basis for an argument. However, tonight’s conversation/debate was
one of the most intellectual I’ve been a part of in quite some time. <o:p></o:p></div>
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And it reminds me how desperately I need to be in grad
school. Sadly, my options here in
Germany are very limited. To get into a
German grad school program, fluency in Latin is required, in my
understanding. The few schools that participate
in the education program in Europe for American military personnel and their
families do not have any programs that fit my needs. This puts me in the bind of finding an online
program that is not with one of the many schools that my future university
employer would deem as reputable. I was
told there’s a possibility I could try getting into a British university, but I
reside in Germany and thus would have to move to England and away from my
husband. My biggest fear in the entire
process, though, is that I will be rejected based on my cumulative GPA when I
graduated. There is also the hurdle of
any testing the school would require to get into the program. I am having many issues researching schools
as well. The only way I have found
success in a search is to go to individual schools that I would be willing to
have on a diploma and looking to see what they have available online. This is a cumbersome way to search. <o:p></o:p></div>
MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-50546999501753605722013-02-12T11:29:00.002-06:002013-02-12T11:29:27.915-06:00Winterland Approaches Spring<br />
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Little green
shoots<o:p></o:p></div>
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Sticking out
of the snow<o:p></o:p></div>
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Brings hope
of the coming spring<o:p></o:p></div>
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Rebirth of
the land<o:p></o:p></div>
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But here in
Winterland<o:p></o:p></div>
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The snow’s
depths encapsulate colors<o:p></o:p></div>
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Only whites
and shades of grey<o:p></o:p></div>
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Allowed to
escape<o:p></o:p></div>
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Little grass
shoots<o:p></o:p></div>
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Persevere<o:p></o:p></div>
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Spring will
come<o:p></o:p></div>
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And you will
flourish<o:p></o:p></div>
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Under father
sun’s warmth<o:p></o:p></div>
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For now the
ravens watch<o:p></o:p></div>
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Protecting
their wintery home<o:p></o:p></div>
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Winterland<o:p></o:p></div>
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Thawing,
allowing sprouts <o:p></o:p></div>
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Shooting up
from the once frozen ground<o:p></o:p></div>
MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-74769706167402538702013-02-12T11:28:00.002-06:002013-02-12T11:28:18.895-06:00Dance of Shadows<br />
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Shadows play on the walls<o:p></o:p></div>
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As they dance around each other<o:p></o:p></div>
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Not touching<o:p></o:p></div>
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Just grazing the outskirts of aura<o:p></o:p></div>
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MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-79032916774476232852013-02-11T15:23:00.000-06:002013-02-11T15:23:18.118-06:00The Storm<br />
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There’s an ache in my soul<o:p></o:p></div>
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Driven by the pain we share<o:p></o:p></div>
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Whatever is driving us apart<o:p></o:p></div>
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Is breaking my soul in two<o:p></o:p></div>
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Driving into the rocks of despair <o:p></o:p></div>
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How did it get to this place?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Pin pointing the moment<o:p></o:p></div>
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It all fell apart<o:p></o:p></div>
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Seems to be just out of reach<o:p></o:p></div>
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No lifeboat to be seen<o:p></o:p></div>
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Tell me how we can fix this<o:p></o:p></div>
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To bring things back <o:p></o:p></div>
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To the beginning<o:p></o:p></div>
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When things were fresh<o:p></o:p></div>
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Like the spring streams<o:p></o:p></div>
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I want back my friend<o:p></o:p></div>
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The one who guided me through<o:p></o:p></div>
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The darkest of my days<o:p></o:p></div>
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But the mast has broken in two<o:p></o:p></div>
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The sails not catching <o:p></o:p></div>
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There’s a silence prevailing<o:p></o:p></div>
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Like the El Nino winds<o:p></o:p></div>
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And the downpour is flooding<o:p></o:p></div>
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My heart, breaking the levees<o:p></o:p></div>
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I want the calm<o:p></o:p></div>
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That settles after the storm<o:p></o:p></div>
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Not the one foretelling <o:p></o:p></div>
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The disastrous damage<o:p></o:p></div>
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MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-69022028707908885872013-02-11T15:19:00.001-06:002013-02-11T15:19:24.140-06:00The Raven<br />
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The calls
through the trees<o:p></o:p></div>
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Echoing
against the snow<o:p></o:p></div>
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Is it a call
to action<o:p></o:p></div>
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A call to
come back to the fold?<o:p></o:p></div>
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The murder
waits for the response<o:p></o:p></div>
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But the
raven replies not<o:p></o:p></div>
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He sits,
waiting<o:p></o:p></div>
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Through the
veil between words<o:p></o:p></div>
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To aid the
one who calls<o:p></o:p></div>
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He chooses
the one<o:p></o:p></div>
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And will go
and sit<o:p></o:p></div>
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On a
shoulder and whisper in their ear<o:p></o:p></div>
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Waiting in
Winterland<o:p></o:p></div>
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To assist
when need be<o:p></o:p></div>
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The one
needs his guidance<o:p></o:p></div>
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To
understand the world in the air<o:p></o:p></div>
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To enjoy the
little things, shiny<o:p></o:p></div>
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The others
call to him<o:p></o:p></div>
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Awaiting to
hear back<o:p></o:p></div>
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He informs
the murder<o:p></o:p></div>
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As he brings
them back to Winterland<o:p></o:p></div>
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A replenishing of the soul<o:p></o:p></div>
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The one has
been struggling<o:p></o:p></div>
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Among the
rat race of the mundane<o:p></o:p></div>
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And he needs
to teach them<o:p></o:p></div>
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Another
lesson about grace <o:p></o:p></div>
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In the midst
of the harsh winter grip<o:p></o:p></div>
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To overcome
hardship<o:p></o:p></div>
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One must
face the harshest winter<o:p></o:p></div>
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As the raven
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MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-14252695052318715622013-02-06T18:29:00.000-06:002013-02-06T18:29:04.300-06:00Silence of WinterAnd we sit in relative silence<br />
It echoing off each expression and shrug<br />
The absence of contact exasperates<br />
The solidity of the quiet<br />
Why must there be this lack of sound<br />
This lack of touch, feel<br />
Even the expressions make no noise in the face<br />
Just the changing of lines and orientation of features<br />
When not moving, each sits in a neutral position<br />
Saying nothing to the other's silent face<br />
And this silence is deafening<br />
Bouncing off the walls and down the halls<br />
When will the joyous sounds return?<br />
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Uncertainty feeds this beast with no voice<br />
Making those exposed question any change<br />
Is there some meaning behind the echoes of nothing?<br />
As if it we're out on the tundra in winter<br />
With no sign of life, not even the wind<br />
The only stirs are the movement of the air<br />
As we pass each other, not touching<br />
Only the breeze as we cut pass<br />
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Where are the blue birds of spring?<br />
Their tweets breaking through<br />
The first sprouts of the acorns that fell before the frost<br />
When will they come and bring back the music,<br />
The joy that once was that filled where silence is nowMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-63116378988474738572013-01-07T14:35:00.000-06:002013-01-07T14:35:04.405-06:00Life with AspergersI've learned that with years working behind the scenes, and apparently this includes the drive-thru at McDonald's, I have lost all ability to exchange money in a public environment. I work now as a teller in a bank and have made two major mistakes. One, I will blame on the system we use, and the other is because my brain had a "spasm" we use. I was counting money today and said things like "cheese" when counting. The "member" said that he was counting with me and that he knew I was right with what I was saying. I was wrong. I was jipping him and didn't know it. I tried to explain to my coworker what was going on and still didn't make much sense. My medication ran out for my seizures/migraines and was given a different release pill but have been given to the conclusion that I should wait until going to my new neuro before taking it. All I know is that I have been making more mistakes of this measure lately. I just want to be normal. MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-61725740872335895762012-11-21T19:58:00.001-06:002012-11-21T19:58:36.708-06:00Rosie's SongPlease forgive mistakes. I've been drinkin and it is 3 am here in Germany. But, my mind keeps going to my friend NC that supposedly committed suicide. I am not one to post a lot of links, but this a very good song for her, and anyone else any of use have lost in war.<br />
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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sayT6O_urQ">Our Friends' Song from a great video game</a>MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-48539607424082018112012-11-10T16:16:00.000-06:002012-11-10T16:16:14.099-06:00Change and What NotSo we made it to Germany and I couldn't be happier. For the most part it's been wonderful and a life long dream has come true! Only down side has been all the time spent in crowded airports and the change itself, but life long dreams are so worth all the uncomfortable situations one goes through in pursuit of such things. German beer is awesome though. I am sick of being in hotel rooms, even though it's another one of those uncomfortable situations that one has to endure in pursuit of dreams and stuff. <br />
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I have no complaints, but part of me is leery. That is life. I have found the Germans more accepting of me, but I'm thinking that has to do with my true appreciation of their culture and attempts at the language. I've already offended at least two Americans and I arrived at 8 am Thursday (German time). Yes, I'm that talented :D The only German to be upset by me was this annoying flight attendant on the Lufthansa flight and she didn't like how I pronounced the word for right. <br />
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I think I'll keep this blog up to date. I think it will be good for me and fun to document this life time dream.MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-75300036918932495602012-10-12T04:06:00.000-05:002012-10-12T04:06:01.987-05:00Concerts, Military Moves, and AspergersIf you don't know, I have Aspergers. Was finally officially diagnosed about a month into therapy for my PTSD. When trauma happens in childhood, it can be hard to distinguish between the two. However, it happened. The military doesn't have record, and that has helped with our move overseas. I'm glad, I had a hard enough time with my neuro and GI to get there. My life long dream has been to be an astronaut and live in Europe, so moving to Germany meets half of that. <br />
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So how do concerts fit in? Well if you know ANYTHING about Aspergers, you know it is on the Autism spectrum and one of the big things is sound. One thing that has always put me at odds with myself is that if loud noises are music then I'm ok, especially in a concert setting. I won't get into the almost fight I got into tonight, just that I miss moshpits, they let out a lot of aggression a lot of us Aspies feel, but I have to say there is a big difference between music being super loud and you expect it, and sudden loud sounds. <br />
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This move has me so discombobulated that I have even a harder time focusing. It's become so bad that I let laundry slide for almost 10 days (and even though there are only 2 of us, we produce 2 loads in 4 days!) and slipped up on sweeping. I hate that this move has me so all over the place that I can't focus more than someone with ADHD and something else that makes you not able to do more than one task at a time and then forget what the next task is. <br />
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Aspergers shades everything. It's always shaded my social interactions, and moving to a completely different culture and the Americans, my supposed brethren, is my biggest hurdle. I've lived in Colorado, surrounded by military spouses, for almost 3 years, and I can count my friends on less than 2 hands. And my very first friend here committed suicide 2 months ago on the 14th. *le sigh* Seriously, I'm so scared of making friends in Germany with American women that I have slacked on my household duties. I'm freaked out. I seriously hope that I can meet some not trashy crazy chick when I get there. Though I have ZERO qualms making friends with the Germans. I do miss Bert.MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-53722382039370801942012-10-06T03:33:00.000-05:002012-10-06T03:33:02.799-05:00Sad NewsSeems that I have been getting a lot of sad news lately. In August I got the dreaded call that my 17 year old cousin had passed. I still do not have all the details, my understanding is a possible overdose. Then on September 6th, when I went to email a friend that we were on our way back to Colorado, we had been in Texas for about 4 weeks, I found out she was dead. It was apparent suicide, and that's another blog post that has proven very difficult to write, but needs to be. Today, I got a call from my friend that I gave my ferrets to that Polar Bear has passed away. I gave my ferrets to her because we're moving to Germany, and at the time we were supposed to move to Germany in early September. She was moving to Tennessee and had the space and the love to care for my babies. Polar Bear was at least 6 years old, according to his vet, and I just did not feel right putting him the belly of a plane for 14+ hours, even with his buddy Juliet. With his passing, I know that I did the right thing. He lived out his last days with kids, playing and having a good old time. Even today, before he passed, he had been running around being his silly self. My friend put the babies in their cage so they could eat, and while they ate Juliet started making a ruckus. They did the usual "Juliet, we're trying to eat" but she just would not stop. So her adoptive daddy went to the cage and he was gone. <br />
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Polar Bear lived a long life for a ferret. He even out lived his cage mate, Sable, by two years. In ferret time, that's like us outliving our spouse by 20+ years. He had many friends and fans. His friends were all small children and he would let them lift him by his tail, pet his head just a bit too hard, and handle him probably a bit too roughly, and he LOVED every second of it. He enjoyed all of his time with anyone that would pay him attention. He touched many lives, especially mine. He's now over the Rainbow Bridge, dookin it up with his mate, Sable, again. He really did mourn her when she left us so suddenly December 17, 2010. She was only 2, but he had bonded with her as if they had been together for decades. He moped and would not eat at times, pining away for her. But Polar Bear and I got passed her death together and he helped me deal with my brain being wired funny. I know Juliet will miss him, but she was a lone ferret before him and she will be ok without him. Polar Bear thrived on having a companion. Juliet is apparently already dancing and playing again, though I'm sure her heart is hurting. <br />
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They say death comes in threes, I think this is my 3 for now. I'm still grieving pretty heavily for my friend. She was my very first friend in Colorado, but like I said, that's a post for another day. But I think right now, I'm ok for my big move. Yep, think I'll be ok. Soon, you, my faithful reader, will hear my thoughts on suicide and the military since my friend was a soldier. I am going to make a concentrated effort to write much more because I've found it very therapeutic. Plus, I write better than most of those selling books on Amazon for Kindle at 99 cents each.MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-16520507716955497182012-09-23T01:10:00.004-05:002012-09-23T01:10:52.037-05:00Note to the WiseThis blog is fixing to become quit serious and/or different than you are used to, my loyal readers. I know I have been negligent of my blogs. However in the best interest of my well being, I'm going to be working on and posting more often and I want to prepare you. Right now I'm dealing with A LOT. Between 2 overdoses in my circle of influences and dealing with the Army, I have been struggling with quite a bit. My only solace in all of this is my husband. He annoys the shit out of me, but he is a my pillar in these trying times. Do not expect anything Biblical, but expect my normal candor. I've missed blogging in a way.MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-32329430823861338652012-09-22T11:04:00.000-05:002012-09-22T11:04:06.141-05:00Anticon. Shirts are Hot<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"><span class="UIStory_Message">I should have stole your shirt when I had the chance</span></span></h3>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"><span class="UIStory_Message">Cuz now I want to wear it and dance</span></span></h3>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"><span class="UIStory_Message">To the beat of my new found drum</span></span></h3>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"><span class="UIStory_Message">That rings with new sounds that are the sum</span></span></h3>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"><span class="UIStory_Message">Of all the heart ache and dignity lost</span></span></h3>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px;"><span class="UIStory_Message">That I allowed you to exhaust</span></span></h3>
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MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-1478345592191612212012-01-26T00:10:00.000-06:002012-01-26T00:10:13.538-06:00I'm Easily AmusedI find that my article on Marvin Harris has so many more views almost 3 years after I originally posted it than any of my new posts! I love it! I'm glad that my piece on Marvin Harris and Cannibals and Kings has people so intrigued! I'm glad to see that others like cannibals and Harris as much as I do :D Seriously, that makes me happy. I have many things I address in this blog but this one makes me the happiest!MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-8729556246069348662012-01-25T00:50:00.000-06:002012-01-25T00:50:18.245-06:00TriggersFor the first time in my entire life, I actually understand what a trigger really is. However, my opinion still stands. To use a trigger as an excuse is unexcuseable! I've finally been diagnosed with PTSD and have triggers. However, I do not allow my triggers to control what I expose myself to or who or how I interact with others. Yes, people accidentally trigger me but it is not THEIR responsibility to mind their words. It is MY responsibility to mind how I react to those triggers. Do my triggers affect my relationship? Yes, they do. Who's responsibility is in my relationship to mind my actions? MINE! So if you have triggers, it is YOUR responsibility to control YOUR actions, not those around you to mind what they say and do. Just sayingMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-74822675850801322662012-01-23T01:59:00.000-06:002012-01-23T01:59:34.866-06:00I have no room to talk but.........I have no room to talk but if you are going to say the trauma in your life has shaped you into the confused, fucked up, overly emotional person you are today, please, for the love of all that is holy, make sure that the only trauma in your life is NOT your momma not lovin you enough! Unless you've gone through MULTIPLE sexual abuses, followed by physical abuse, followed by being stalked WHILE being abused by one of your parents, WHILE being sexually abused still, followed by physical abuse, followed by bullying, followed by adult rape.... oh yeah, this doesn't even cover it..... yet I still act like a sane, rational human while in public. The only person that has to deal with my regressions is my husband, who is the 2nd most patient human you've ever met, only trumped by my step-dad (who I call Dad), because he is the only person that I TRUST enough to act like this. I CHOOSE to act like an ADULT in public. If you are acting like a 3 year old while in public and are my age than maybe you should seek therapy. I sought it, only because I wasn't acting my AGE in PRIVATE. I got a grip a long time ago and I'm so sick of seeing people around my age say that DUE to abuse they went through they are sad fucks with no potential. HELLO! You only had Mummy hit you ONCE with a brush or a rolling pin, get the fuck over it! <br />
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To those that don't understand abuse... don't worry, you grew up adjusted and probably HELPED those that were being abused in so many ways overcome what they were going through (Jenny, you helped me growing up more than you'll ever know). And even those who may have been going through less but still abuse, you helped those going through worse than you. I know when we were all younger we didn't talk about what was going on at home, but we kind of all knew who was going through hell and who wasn't. We all affected each other in such great ways, even the bullies helped you develop. So those who try to say they are weak and feeble for what they went through, go ahead and just off yourself because you obviously have ZERO strength and will die after a paper cut of reality anyways, so finish it. Do you know after all I've gone through how many times I've attempted suicide? ZERO! Yeah, you heard that right, I've attempted suicide ZERO times. Do you know why? Because I knew that suicide is a cowards way out and running away was way easier<br />
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Ok, my points have ran out and I'm sure Ive pissed off some folks, good, life goes onMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-22455193406185616412011-11-02T17:27:00.001-05:002011-11-02T17:27:54.938-05:00NANO Has Me Writing Again... KindaI'm participating in NANO again this year, hopefully doing better than in previous years. And it's reminded me I need to write more. I have neglected this and my other blogs. But there's another reason for that, my back. I'm so sick and tired of my back hurting all the damn time! Seriously! Today, I switched to my old muscle relaxers to get some work done because my new, and better, ones were just not relaxing that muscle in my back that's decided it needs to spasm constantly. And do the doctors actually do anything for me? No! I get treated like a pill popper and handed muscle relaxers that barely work. They don't test for anything and just treat me like I'm out for pain pills. No, I'm out for a reason why my back has been giving me hell since April! I'm so frustrated and I'm on the verge of crying again. I'm so sick of it. I'm sick of the pain. <br />
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And that's not all! I've been informed that I am lazy because I don't have a job, repeatedly. This is NOT from my husband, but from other sources. Yes, I don't have a kid to take care of and yes I have a college degree so you would think there would be no reason for me to be out of work. Well guess what? That college degree is one of the reasons I do NOT have a job!!! And I've been looking for work for well over a year and I'm so sick of not working. My business isn't doing well and I can't keep my student loans on deferment forever. I'm so sick of being unemployed. I WANT a job! I want to work! I don't want to sit here in my house day in and day out looking for work and not able to obtain it. I'm so sick of people making assumptions about why I'm unemployed and then running their mouths about it. Who are you to judge ME??? And it's even coming back to my husband about how there's no excuse for me not to be working. Yeah, not cool! I don't know who's saying what, and I honestly don't care, but I'm sick of it. So not only am I in pain EVERY day but I've got to deal with douchebags talking shit about me behind my back or to my husband that don't even know what I'm going through or how hard I'm trying. I've even applied to retail jobs and call centers! I'm applying to jobs at my work level and below! I've even applied for jobs outside my field. I soooooo hope that if I'm friends with someone who knows one of the people talking about my lack of work they will inform these people talking about my lack of job that I am in fact trying. I've had job interviews but not a job. <br />
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Ugh, I'm just frustrated and in pain and sick of hearing about how horrible of a person I am from othersMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-29617543487095911072011-09-13T01:40:00.000-05:002011-09-13T01:40:40.890-05:00WowI just saw that one of my young friends lost their husband today. They're in their twenties and have a young daughter, and she is now a widow. I'm crying. I never met her or her husband, but I've been friends with her online for almost two years. I can not imagine what she's going through, what the baby is going through. I have no words to give her... What do you say to a young woman who just lost the love of their life? What do you say to a 3 year old who just lost their daddy? What do you say to a young woman who loses their husband to illness at such a young age? I know what to say to someone who's spouse is killed in an accident or is murdered, I've been there, but what do you say to someone who loses someone at such an early age to health issues? I have no ideaMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-46369522075707830782011-09-11T05:37:00.000-05:002011-09-11T05:37:25.679-05:00I've seen Mary<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', HelveticaNeue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19px;"></span><br />
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Originally posted on Tumblr (<a href="http://morgansdead.tumblr.com/post/8680596123/my-mary-experience-as-a-non-catholic">here though no text has been changed</a>)</div>
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This post isn’t about my religious preferences, as obviously they’re inconsequential seeing as I had a Virgin Mary experience and I am NOT Catholic. </div>
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On December 17th, my beloved ferret Sable passed away suddenly after a very short bout with lymphoma. I buried her on a very frosty day, digging with just a gardening spade while it was snowing, in our flower bed, just behind the AC unit that is front of the flower bed. I placed 3 rocks as markers, 2 rocks to stay there and 1 the shape of a heart that I plan to keep taking with me every where (I’ve had this rock, it’s granite, since 2001, got it just before 9/11 actually). Polar Bear and I would visit the rocks occasionally, and at night I would look at them when I knew my husband wasn’t going to call. One night, before I went home for Christmas, I stood out there on the patio, near the markers, quite upset. I looked at the markers and saw the Virgin Mary, in a red robe, holding my Sable. Sable was at peace and Mary looked down on her smiling. The vision was brief, but it has stuck with me. </div>
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Friday, 8/5, I was standing on my patio. As I stood there, a sense of foreboding struck me and as I looked out over the parking lot, the lights started going off one by one. We’re talking, full on Constantine like stuff! The need to say Hail Marys struck me and without thinking I began saying them. As the words flowed from my mouth, no stopping despite the fight you could feel in the air, the lights started slowly coming back on. As the last light came on and the fight ended, and the final Hail Mary came from my lips, a single shooting star appeared, but it was too low to be a real shooting star. It was much lower in the sky, but not poop coming out of a plane close… it’s really hard to explain how I knew it was special, other than the strange play of events just prior, but the shooting star graced the sky as I finished the last Hail Mary. </div>
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I know this is a huge deal, even if I was Catholic, but being a non-Catholic, I know this is a rare thing. I am just sick of people telling me that it wasn’t Mary, Mother of God, and that it’s Mary Magdalene. No, I am 100% sure it was the Virgin Mary, Mary, Mother of God. I can not, for the life of me, get anyone to tell me what the significance of Mary in a red robe is. I hope I eventually figure this out.</div>
MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-54372924396387572382011-09-10T19:03:00.001-05:002011-09-10T19:03:27.427-05:00An UpdateI haven't posted here in ages and I feel like a horrible blog owner in doing so. I have been working on several blogs though and so my blogger accounts have been neglected. In addition, my husband made it home and I think his presence has helped get me back to writing again. I've caught up on my writing projects across my three blogger blogs and my three Tumblr blogs. Blogger has been neglected due to Tumblr, but I think I'm finding a balance between Twitter, Facebook, Blogger, and Tumblr. There are so many options to express my thoughts and it becomes a little overwhelming at times but I'm slowly, ever so slowly, getting those thoughts organized and into the right blogs. <br />
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I just had to take a break from writing this as my newest ferret Juliet decided to climb into the game/movie drawers of our entertainment center. She's such a goober like that. She's always getting into things. She's helped Polar Bear tremendously though and he's almost to pre-Sable's death energy levels, especially now that B's home. Have I mentioned how truly blessed I am to have him here? We've had our ups and downs since his return, but that is all part of the readjustment phase and things are probably better than ever. <br />
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Well, back to working on my Etsy shop. This is where much of my free time goes when I'm not watching tv or playing video games. MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-77883964171412046602011-03-07T23:00:00.000-06:002011-03-07T23:00:42.091-06:00Marriage and Other Such ThingsSo, I read this article on Cracked.com about some "religious" websites they found humorous or just hard on the eyes. I ended up looking at all of them. The first site was one that the concept was awesome, the concept of the woman warrior for God, but the execution of the concept failed, and miserably. The other site that I've spent much of my evening on was this Hell Fire and Brimstone site that is one step below the insanity that is Westboro "Baptist Church". (I put that in quotes because I do not think that Westboro is Christian or a reflection of the Baptist movement at all). Most of this second site has me cracking up because of its insistence on everything being evil, but the part that gets me really going is their "women's page". (You can see for yourself <a href="http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Womens%20Page/womens_page.htm">here</a>). Most of this is how feminism is evil and it's ruining women, but there was one article that I actually agreed with and I will address it now. The article was on marriage and the relationship between a woman and her husband on a Christian level. However, this wasn't one of those brow beating articles, no, this woman wrote about how as a wife, our relationship with our husband should be our number one human relationship. <br />
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How the article was written, I took it that most people aren't best friends with their husbands. I knew a long ago that I could only marry my best friend, and put off marrying mine for quite some time. I think we're better for it in the end. My putting off marriage to B was good for us. I got my party out, learned to appreciate the friend I have in B, and learned conflict resolution skills within a relationship before we were together. In addition, B was able to show me just how much he truly cares for me and is dedicated to me. Obviously, I'm going to take religion out of this topic at this point. I personally have "eccentric" beliefs that the site admin for the original site I was on would consider Satanic, and my husband is agnostic. My husband actually likes the fact that I can think for myself when it comes to spirituality and that I have really never been one to push my beliefs on others and I won't now. However, I will push my feelings on marriage on everyone. The author of the article I've been talking about made a very good point that we should be best friends with our husbands. How she said it though, you would think that most people don't do this. If this is the case though it is no wonder that divorce is so rampant, in both the Christian and other communities! A foundation of friendship between spouses is what is going to secure your relationship long into old age. Being physically attracted to your spouse is great, but when gravity starts taking its toll on the body and your body starts to fail you, if you have a relationship based in friendship you will still have a relationship. However, if you do not have that friendship, you're going to run out of things you have in common when sex is just not an option. <br />
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Another point the author made was that wives should put their husbands above their children. I completely agree with this. No, I do not have kids of my own yet. However, I find that one of the problems many married couples have is that they put their children above their relationship. This is a problem. When you neglect your relationship with your spouse due to children, you are wearing away at that foundation when the children are gone. However, it is a balancing act! As I told my mom earlier, I think that as a couple parents should put their children first, however as individuals they should put each other first. I know this sounds contradictory, but it's not. As a couple, you are one. However, you are both individuals. As an individual, you should put your spouse first. When you address your children, you should do so as a couple and they should come first to a point. If your children's activities are taking away from family time and couple time (say your kids are in so many activities that all you do as a family is go from one activity to another), then your priorities as a couple and family are off. You can disagree with me if you like, I don't care.<br />
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Ok, I think I've rambled on enough. At least I know my spelling is correctMorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-39663227589669028732011-03-04T20:50:00.000-06:002011-03-04T20:50:09.582-06:00I'm going to complainAs much as I whine, I really don't complain. Right now, I want to complain. Why is it that everyone wants you to come over to their place but they'll never come hang out with you? I'm not talking about anyone in particular. I'm just venting. I'm lonely and bored, despite having tons to do around the house. I was looking forward to going out tonight, but the plans got changed. I'm not upset about that, not at all actually, I'm upset that every fuckin time I ask anyone to come over and just visit, no one ever does. Now, if others want me to come visit do I? Usually I do unless I'm sick or I'm tired of hanging out with that person because they've been annoying me. Anywho! I just don't get why I have to beg for people to hang out with me and then no one will anyways. People say that they like me and that I'm one of the best friends they've ever had and yet I can't get people to hang out with me at my house. I'm so proud of myself for having this wonderful place, keepin it up, and NOT living with my parents. I'm not sure why people don't want to come to my house, but it does bug me. And yes, I'm cryin over here. I don't need people feeling sorry for me, but damn.MorgansDeadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00978514910761982964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2461225176250911638.post-68212769391191606342011-01-22T15:15:00.000-06:002011-01-22T15:15:22.376-06:00SableI would have posted this sooner, but Sable's passing came so close to my trip to Texas for the Christmas holiday that I just couldn't get to it. I thought I would share Sable's last days with you. Sable went in for surgery and they found the mass was her spleen and she had a fatty liver. Biopsy came back while I was in Texas that she had lymphoma and with her passing, I think it was for the best. <br />
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The first night was easy enough, she curled up in my summer clothes, staining a white shirt, but was comfortable and slept peacefully the entire night. The next day she seemed a bit groggy, but who wouldn't after having major surgery. I made her eat and drink and she took her medicine. She curled up with me on the floor. However by day 3 she was very slow and extremely groggy. I took her in to the vet and they gave her fluids and told me to skip her pain meds. It really seemed that was it. She was only a pound and that means it's really hard to determine exactly how quickly her body would metabolize pain medication. That night though, I knew it was the end. She would only lay and hardly moved. When she did her "business" right where she was sleeping, I knew that she would not make it through the night. I held her and told her that she had to make it. Daddy wanted to see her and he would be home in a couple weeks. She just had to make it. I was crying and she kissed my cheek. She gave me this look, such a sweet look, that said to me "mommy, I tried, but this battle is just too much. Tell daddy I love him and I'm sorry that I couldn't be there when he came home. I wanted to smell his feet and steal his socks." She laid back down, after taking water and food by syringe, and went to sleep. She slept peacefully and passed in her sleep. That morning was one of the toughest mornings I've had in a long time. She's now got a nice grave and in our hearts as the sweet, loving ferret she was. She really was my sweet girl. Polar Bear is now a lonely boy but we're making the best of it. He's slowly getting used to me loving on him like I would Sable, but he still won't sit on my shoulders. Sable loved hanging out up there. RIP lil one, we all will miss you.<br />
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I would like to thank all of those who helped with the extra expense of her vet bills. You're help was amazing and I was able to cover her expenses thanks to you! Thank you, thank you, thank you!<br />
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